Feed the poor and pat the head of the orphan, these actions will soften your heart. Doing these actions, you will feel what they feel. And you will feel more grateful for what you have.
A hadith from Abu Huraira (may Allah blesses him). The Prophet ﷺ says,
إِنْ أَرَدْتَ تَلْيِينَ قَلْبِكَ فَأَطْعِمْ الْمِسْكِينَ وَامْسَحْ رَأْسَ الْيَتِيمِ
“A man came to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), and he complained about the hardness of his heart. The Prophet said, “If you want to soften your heart, then feed the poor and pat the head of the orphan”[Musnad Ahmad, stated as sahih by al-Albani in Silsilah al-Ahaadith as-Saahiha].
When you feel your heart become hard, then try help more poor people and help the orphans. The more you do those actions, the more your gain peaceful heart.
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