Be gentle in any matter. Dealing with any matters gently will adorn them. The contrary, doing anything harshly will make it ugly and messy.
A hadith from Aisha (may Allah blesses her), that the Prophet -peace be upon him- says:
إِنَّ الرِّفْقَ لَمْ يَكُنْ فِي شَىْءٍ قَطُّ إِلاَّ زَانَهُ وَلاَ نُزِعَ مِنْ شَىْءٍ قَطُّ إِلاَّ شَانَهُ
“There is no gentleness in a thing but it adorns it, and the absence of gentleness in anything makes it ugly” [Saheeh Muslim].
So, be gentle!
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